donderdag 15 maart 2012

Lies

Everyone has lied once in their life, I'm quite sure about that. Somebody does it once in a while, the other one does it daily and another one does it every minute. Others lie about how many sweets they've eaten and others can lie about a murder.
I hate people who lie btw, maybe because I have this weird habit of searching the truth behind everything (aye, you've got a little sherlock here!).
"So you never lie or wut"? Ohh I do, I do... I just try to lie less and of course trying not to lie about serious stuff, but that's never easy...

When someone asks you what time it is, we never give the exact time, but we always round it off. Why? Because it's easier. That's exactly why most people lie. We just want to make things easier for ourselves, less fuss. It gives us a false feeling of comfortableness, though this period of comfortableness is only temporary.
You can never hide something forever (or you have to be a damn good one) . The chest will be found and opened some day, some time. And I can tell you, this one will not be containing a treasure.

If someone tells you something, lets take a good friend saying he or she will never do this or that to you.
How will you ever know if she/he will be speaking the truth? You wont, because you simly can't. You aren't able to look inside her and see her thoughts. If you say something, only you can know if it's the truth or a lie you've said, if they say something, only they can know if it's true or not.
So according to what I've said, everything someone else says has to be a lie and so not true. Well, yep, of course if we leave science etc out of it (might explain why I hate maths).
It's all about trust. It's you who assumes that he or she is telling the truth to you because you trust her.
That's something you have to earn, that's how people become friends, why people fall in love, because they can trust each other and feel safe. We trust them with our heart, not with our brain and that's why we are hurt so much when a friend lies to us. It breaks the trust you've built up and it sometimes can be hard to find to stones to rebuild it.  It comes down to believe, believe in other people.

Of course not everyone lie has to be that deep and bad. I don't think your parents were deeply hurt when you were lying about the chocolate you had been eating while having chocolate all over your mouth =p.
It comes down to believe, believe in other people.

When you've lied, try not to keep the chest hidden for too long, it might contain a few gold pieces after all.


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